The hill i'll die on...
I'll make my cake and eat it off of my husband too, Thank you!
I was often told that "you can't have your cake and eat it to!" and it always confused me. The concept I understood, but the reality of it made zero sense. If I have cake...why can't I eat it? Better yet, if I make a cake, you bes' believe i'm eating it! This sentiment says that you can't have everything you want, and even more so, you can't always have it the way you want it -- especially in relationship. I beg to differ. I've spent my life creating my reality (love, sex & relationships included) through leaning into the desires people told me were "too much" or "too easy" or "crazy" or "out there" or "ridiculous" or "not appropriate" or "not sustainable". I've followed my heart, I've remained curious about this opportunity for living, I've leaned into the hard things, the scary things, the uncomfortable things, I've let myself dream, and manifest, and pray and follow my knowing. I've made my cake and I intend to eat it -- off of my husband too, thank you!
I started my first SLRC (sex, love & relationship coaching) journey back in 2017 with Dr. Ava Cadell and the Loveology University certified Love Coaching program, followed by a Human Sexuality Certification with the Kinsey Institute in 2021. As my desire to go deeper into this work grew, so did the aspects of myself that needed to heal, especially in the realm of my own eroticism and relationships. In 2022 I embarked on one of the most awe-inspiring & transformational studies of my life with Layla Martin's VITA Coaching Certification. As of today, I'm continuing my education, finishing my degree & helping lovers live fully expressed, safely loved & well f*cked!
FINDING INSPIRATION FROM
slow mornings, intentional time with loved ones, deep conversations, spotify, local cafe's and really great sex.
I guide women and lovers, in coupledom, towards confident eroticism & nourishing partnership through communication, exploration, curiosity & self-empowerment.
I offer the tools and space to feel confident and safe in exploring your relational wounding, communicating about your desires, unearthing your growth areas, leaning into your edges, showing up in progress, celebrating your wins, honoring your hardships, cultivating the love you dream of, co-creating the intimacy that excites you, releasing outdated behaviors and learning to thrive personally and relationally through a holistic lens coupled with somatic modalities.
BASICally: You'll be loving and f*cking yourselves and each other a lot more intentionally and whole lot more deliciously
All about
authenticity, kindness, curiosity over judgement, foreplay, great conversation and comprehensive sexual education
NOT ABOUT
performative sex, yucking their yum, bullying, surface connections, lack of accountability, DV, SA & trafficking
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